Sex and Porn Addiction and how The Holy Spirit can help!

20 May

(*Shocking facts in these videos you will see at the second half of this post. Please do take the time to listen to these testimonies and share it. Thank you!)

There are a lot of traps out there, laid out by predatory minds. The predatory mindset is a program, and it runs in everything from corporations to people – it can manifest in everything we can imagine. If you can think of it – the psychopath’s mind and predators can be there too, and they most likely already are. This post is therefore made to both inform you, and to give you hope of that this dark secret business of mankind’s life is a battle that God does NOT shy away from.

Just as the dark is on constant lookout for new victims, the defense seeks to protect you. BELIEVE IT!

Good quality creative mind – they, who wish our very best, and who fight to heal others, they are ALSO in ALL areas of life. God especially, will send Angels into areas where help are needed the most… And since God is LIGHT, we shall shed Light on topics that are veiled in darkness.

The topic today is just one of many about how the DARKNESS will TEMPT us to fall, til we are broken down, and totally enslaved. The goal of the darkness is to overshadow us til we loose sigh of what is good, real and healthy. It will try to destroy your body, mind and spirit. When a person are in the claws of such Powers, he or she finds themselves in the middle of an ancient Power STRUGGLE – or a WAR. It is a war on Your Soul.


Predators and Pyschopaths uses Traps,
very often called “HONEY TRAPS”.

Addictive BUT SWEET POISON and predators can seduce their prey to come closer, come a little closer, closer… til they take over the victim and the victim are finally “lost” to the PARASITE. The deadly touch can be all so tender, to begin with, and all so subtle – to work its charm on us.  There are systems put in motion in this world that uses various kinds of ways to prey on us – to get our money but also to break down the power of the system they see as their enemy. This video explains some of it:

MYSTERY BABYLON, THE NEW WORLD ORDER, THE BIBLE, THE FINANCIAL CRISIS, AND SATANISM: CONNECTIONS


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The economic system today are run by many psychopaths, and they lack all empathy, feel no shame and have no limits – all they seek is TOTAL CONTROL, absolute power, and increased profits.

SEX AND MONEY are major areas involved in this war on mankind’s very Soul.


PORNOGRAPHY has worked its way into our society. It is a deliberate design to control your body, mind and spirit. This is linked to mankind’s ROOT, it is energies that are very primal. Instincts, and hormones with great force, hence it can also work in favor of those that seek to make you addicted. Addiction will guarantee that those that seek control over you, have secured their access to your body, mind and spirit:

Satanic Agenda: Demon Worship and the Promoting of Sex With Fallen Angels Part 1


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Table of Contents:
# Satanic Priest Explains Pop Culture Brainwash
# Demons Behind The Music Industry (Ex Illuminati John Todd explains)
# Megadeth rocker Dave Mustaine refuses to play heavy rock anthem because the track is laden with black magic imagery and occult spells
# Katy Perry: Promoting Intercourse with “Aliens”–The indoctrination of the youth to the coming great deception (here in this interview she confess to having moved from singing Gospel to “selling her soul to the devil“… )

Luciferian Agenda: Promoting Sex With Fallen Angels 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aIECt4PWpww

The consequences of porn –  how it shapes our view on our selves and others, the view we get on our world, on love, trust,  how it shapes our relationships and our faith in God… it is LITERALLY a re-wiring of our brain!

Just as I wrote this, as I sit outside – a dove flew from one tree to the other.

To me, The Dove is the symbol of THE HOLY SPIRIT. And if One Tree has BAD ROOTS, its fruit will be bad.
But THE HOLY SPIRIT CAN FLY, and MOVE ON – if one Tree is not good for you – lift off and move on. Build your nest, shelter in a Tree with GOOD ROOTS, it will give you healthy fruits, and offer you nourishments.

Before you watch the videos – remember, THIS is the most important Message here:

THERE IS REAL LOVE. BELIEVE. DO NOT GIVE UP.
THE HOLY SPIRIT CAN FLY, LET IT SET YOU FREE!


MOVE ON if you where given bad fruits that poisoned you.
Clense Your Self, DETOX, and go through withdrawals as you fight addiction, toxins –
but KNOW that You CAN make it!

There are more good people out there then there are predators!
And it is about time, that the good, strong and AWARE people DO SPEAK UP against this! The videos presented below is a good example of people who do just that. They DO CARE, and they know VERY WELL what we are fighting against here…


Find a GOOD Garden, that TRULY can shelter you,
who can HOLD YOU UP – not tear you down!
THAT is where The Holy Spirit will offer you GOOD Fruit!!
God wants to shelter You – so You TRULY can blossom!! 

ALSO, remember this – The Holy Spirit can fly
and like an Eagle, has a VERY GOOD VIEW/SIGHT,
it can see from a very long distance… it knows.


The Holy Spirit IS aware of what You have seen,

the feelings You have gone through. The pain inside.
The Holy Spirit wants to be Your Shelter, give You Nourishment, and REAL LOVE.


If your experience has hurt you – if you where seduced by the Devil,
and experience betrayal, empty promises, superficial sweet lies… 

The Holy Spirit WANTS to guide you TOWARDS that Good Tree –
with a place for Your Heart to HEAL.


The Devil tempts and tests us all, and put us through trials and tribulation.
THE DIVINE FEMININE understands. And as A Divine Mother, she will hold you, and comfort you – and Love You and FORGIVE YOU, as a Loving Divine Mother does Love Her Children.

This is why I post this song

You will know, when God delivers a Message – it can come through in most peculiar ways. If you are ready to receive, You will know – it has always been there, waiting for You:

BY YOUR SIDE – LIFEHOUSE


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God PAID The Price – so that YOU could be FREE! HE let the very ROOT of His being to be crushed by the evil powers. (see the nails through his feet as a symbol of this.) His Body (Church) was attacked by the dark forces – this He did, to PROVE His WORD: that He could rebuild it on 3 days..

That very fact, are of course also being attacked and lied about (covered up), but it is true. <<<— watch the video in the link. Also, see this: The Shroud of Turin scientifically proves the Resurrection part 1


God sends Angels to deliver Messages,
and those Angels can work in the most mysterious places.

GOD NEVER GIVES UP on You!
So do not give up on Your Self!

(this image has nothing to do with the content,
it is just used symbolically on the topic of shame)

Please take the time to listen to these Messages:

The terrible effects of sex addiction


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What is pornography addiction
Source: – the haven healing centre

//”Pornography addiction is a form of sexual addiction characterized by the overuse or abuse of pornography. Online pornography addiction can be defined as a psychological addiction to, or dependence upon, pornography obtained via the Internet, characterized by obsessive viewing, reading, and thinking about pornography and sexual themes to the detriment of other areas of one’s own life.

Using laptop to access sex and pornographyA great deal of time is spent in activities necessary for the behavior, engaging in the behavior, or recovering from its effects, and over time, there is a need to increase the intensity or frequency of the behavior in order to achieve the same or desired effect. The addictive and progressive nature of pornography is well documented, as is the control it can take of a person’s life and relationships. In order to satisfy their addiction, addicts will spend extended periods of time searching the internet for new or increasingly hardcore pornography.

Once online pornography becomes rationalized, and what was once taboo, naughty or just plain sexy, no longer holds the same stimulation, there is a natural desensitization to specific types of images, and there is a need to escalate to more shocking, rougher, kinkier or more bizarre images and video.

This can be mind altering, in that, a person can start to think that this is something they’ve never seen, never done, or never thought of before.

There may be a desire to act out some of the more experimental aspects depicted in the pornographic material, and this, assuming they don’t already know, is when a spouse can become suspicious. More and more demands of an uncharacteristic nature can lead to questions being asked and eventually the risk of being caught is high.The alternative is to seek a partner outside of the relationship.

Is sex addiction the same as pornography addiction?
Not really, but porn, in all its forms, is often rationalied as a fairly safe substitute. Sex addiction can be a high risk behaviour to the individual, whereas internet sex, phone sex, cyber sex, pornography and sex movies are seen as medically ‘safe’. This demonstrates that there can be a pre-existing problem that culminates in internet porn addiction. The sexual addiction was already present but the individual looks for additional or accelerated tranquilization that involves the internet and satisfies the ‘power struggles’ that are often a feature of sex addiction. The problem is NOT the internet. The internet is just a tool to satisfy a need and provides an alternative outlet for the sex addict.

Child finding pornography on his computerFew people self-refer for pornography addiction
It’s true! Very few people self-refer for pornography addiction. I originally came across this whilst treating depression. Depression can be one of the side effects of porn addiction. The feeling of powerlessness and feeling like you will never get it back. You feel as if you are losing a part of yourself. It’s painful, and disempowering, and scary.

There is power in all those negative emotions mentioned above, but it is negative power. That’s how it creates negativity in our lives that unfolds as depression, discomfort, draining us of energy and our very life force. Whatever is showing up in your life is designed to help you reclaim your power. That’s what treatment here is designed to do.

Another reason often sited for reluctance to self-refer, is the realization that this addiction involves a machine. Chemical addiction is seen as acceptable as it is seen as something we have no control over. How can I be addicted to a machine? Yes, your computer is just a machine and looking at porn has become a serious habit. The problem is NOT the computer. The computer is just the tool you use to satisfy your habit.

To illustrate how difficult it is to break free: Hold your hands about 6″ apart and ask someone to tie a single cotton thread around your hands. Now pull apart. What happens? The thread breaks. Notice how wrapping your hands in more and more strands of cotton makes it harder and harder to break free. Well, pornography is like this. The more you look at it, the more tempting it is to look at more explicit imagery, and the more difficult it is to break free from it.


Break free and put the POWER back into your life – Self-refer
Because men (or women) rarely self-refer for this problem, for those that do I have nothing but the highest admiration. It takes guts to make the decision to self-refer. There are lots of reasons for that. One is that of cause and effect. We can clearly see how cigarette addiction, alcohol addiction or drug addiction can have a profound effect on the body. But we don’t necessarily accept that pornographic imagery, and movies, and verbal interaction can have such a detrimental affect on the body, or the mind.

It is a difficult subject to talk about. It is a difficult subject to discuss with a stranger, or to anyone really. But the fact that you have the inner strength to do this makes my part really easy and your part a sure thing. You will find that reading this page will make you feel powerful. Making your appointment will help you stay powerful. Following through with your appointments will see you gain back your inner power and conquer all. “//

Pornography Addiction in Christian Men & Women

–  How they found Freedom:


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“video to show the destruction of pornography in the lives of Christian men and women and how they found real freedom through a ministry called:” www.settingcaptivesfree.com

Ex Porn Producer Donny Pauling (part 1 of 2)


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Ex Porn Producer Donny Pauling (part 2 of 2)


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Ex Porn Star Shelley Lubben Testifies at California State Capitol


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//• The sex industry is a 97.06 billion world wide business annually.

• There are more strip clubs in the United States than any other nation in the world.

• There are 3,829 adult cabarets nationwide, employing over 500,000 people.

• Statistics compiled by ACE show that a single gentlemen’s club in a major metropolitan area averages between $10-20 million per year in gross revenues. A small club in a rural area (Less than 5000 square feet) can generate over a million dollars, while cities in secondary markets such as Cleveland or Pittsburgh have clubs that gross approximately $2 million per year.

• The number of major strip clubs nearly doubled between 1987 and 1992, and by 1997 there were around 3000 clubs nationally. The industry is estimated to be a 15 billion dollar business, with the annual revenues of strip clubs ranging from $500,000 to over 5 million (Hanna, 2005; Schlosser, 1997).// Source

Every 2 minutes a child is being prepared for sexual exploitation. (UNICEF)

Almost 300,000 AMERICAN children are at risk for trafficking into the sex industry. (USDOJ)

The average age of an American victim is 11-14 years old.  But most victims are not rescued until age 15.  And even then, only a handful receive rehabilitative services due to lack of Safe Homes. (USDOJ)

Since 2006, International Crisis Aid has rescued over 130 girls ages 4-25 years old from this horror.  We have watched them go from victim to survivor.  From hopeless to accomplished.  From being rescued to being the rescuer.

Please join us in our U.S. Safe Campaign to open Safe Homes in the U.S. for American victims. Go to International Crisis Aid Blog!

(the following is copied from: ‘The Protected Innocence Challenge: Mobilizing State Action for National Change.’ Posted by: Clare on 12/2/2011)

//”The 90-minute panel provided a fruitful and passionate discussion on the growing problem of domestic minor sex trafficking and the steps that must be taken to solve it.

We would like to extend our sincere appreciation to the leaders and activists who paved the way for the Protected Innocence Challenge and the success of each event. Please visit us online to download your state Report Card and begin mobilizing change in YOUR community!”//

CHILDREN IN THE SEX INDUSTRY

Child pornography generates $3 billion annually.

• There are 10 million children in the Sex Industry right now.
• Every minute 2 children are forced into the sex industry.
• This includes forced child prostitution, pornography & sex trade tourism.

*snippet from: ‘The Protected Innocence Challenge: Mobilizing State Action for National Change.’ Posted by: Clare on 12/2/2011) ~ //”Samantha Vardaman, Senior Director of Shared Hope International, discussed the importance of criminal provisions for facilitators, including asset forfeiture of those who benefit financially from human trafficking as well as travel agencies, taxi companies, and hotels who support the industry.”//


• Human Trafficking not only occurs in other countries, but also from other countries to the United States & Canada.
• Atlanta, GA is considered the ‘hot spot’ for child exploitation in the US.
• Underground movement from Asia & Nepal
• Sold by parents, tricked or abducted

• Sex with children is the #1 choice – “hottest” form of sex in the world.

• The average cost to de-virginize 8 & 9 year girl or boy is $30K.
• Doctors, lawyers & business men are primary customers.

• Children are then put into brothels & made to ‘pay back’ buyers.

• They are beaten, drugged & raped into submission and often chained to beds.

• They perform 30-40 tricks a day.
• At age 13, when little girls have babies, the infant is placed under the bed where mother ‘works’.

• Their average life expectancy is 16-18 years due to HIV & AIDS.


• These children can’t return to their country or village because they are considered outcasts/‘whores’.

This is a human rights issue. This is a family issue. This is a feminist issue.

#1. An estimated one million children are forced to work in the global sex industry every year.

#2. The global sex slavery market generates a $97.06 billion profit annually.

#3. Selling young girls is more profitable than trafficking drugs or weapons.

Celebrities are taking part in the Real Men Don’t Buy Girls campaign. Be part of this campaign and spread awareness.


An amazing poem from gifted survivor Chong Kim’s blog Face of Tears
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We’ve all been to the place she describes.
To read her is always to remember that we’re not alone.

Here’s an excerpt:

I stare at my hands, covered in black and blue.

Gripping onto the floor, trying to hold myself up,

As he’s cannibalizing my body.

I close my eyes, tears fall among the drips of my eyeliner,

I pray for death,

No redemption for me.

No one perceives me as a prisoner,

I am just a clown performing for predators.

Over and over I am raped,

Silent victim, because I have no voice.

How did I get here?

Yeah, I chose this life because I have nothing better to do

Then to choose misery . . .

(Copyright © 2012 Chong Kim, All Rights Reserved)

Read the complete poem here.

The film Eden, co-written and based on the life story of Chong Kim, is premiering at the 2012 South by Southwest Arts Festival!

(ARE there any survivors in the Sex Industry?
What happens with them?

Are there any support groups?
Yes there is!)  ~SURVIVORS CONNECT NETWORK

 

Image from:  Hope and Healing for Victims of Sexual Assault: A Q&A with Pastor Justin Holcomb
by: Pastor Mark Driscoll on Feb 29, 2012 in Tools, Church

(*snippet*)

//MD: Pastor Justin, thank you for your work in shedding the light of the gospel on the epidemic that is sexual assault. Due to the ambiguity surrounding the meaning of the term “sexual assault,” could you please explain what exactly sexual assault is?

JH: Sexual assault is not just rape by a stranger with a weapon. Approximately 80 percent of victims are assaulted by an acquaintance (relative, spouse, dating partner, friend, pastor, teacher, boss, coach, therapist, doctor, etc.). Sexual assault also includes attempted rape or any form of nonconsensual sexual contact or behavior.

In our book we define sexual assault: “Sexual Assault is any type of sexual behavior or contact where consent is not freely given or obtained and is accomplished through force, intimidation, violence, coercion, manipulation, threat, deception, or abuse of authority.” This definition gets beyond our society’s narrow understanding of the issue and expands the spectrum of actions to be considered sexual assault.

MD: Why is it important to define sexual assault in the way that you have?

JH: First, clarity helps victims know that they are not alone in their experience.

Second, victims are more motivated to report if they know that what happened to them was a crime.

Third, a clear definition reduces myths and victim blaming.

Fourth, it also enables more services to be established to cater to the needs of victims of an extremely violating crime, in addition to educating authorities on how to properly handle such a sensitive topic.

Fifth, surveys and studies indicate that most people know almost nothing about the dynamics of sexual violence and have little or no experience in dealing with it.//

From ‘EMBRACE YOUR FREEDOM‘ I found the following:

//”I have been doing quite a bit of research on Anti-Human Trafficking programs throughout the U.S. recently. I wanted to do an entry on different organizations because the effort of these groups needs to be acknowledged. I applaud each and every one of their efforts. I’m going to post their websites where you can find information on internships and methods to donate.

Eagles Wings Ministry

On Eagles Wings Ministries was founded to encourage women of all backgrounds 
to overcome the pains of their past, renew their strength through God’s word, and begin to soar as they experience God’s love, forgiveness, and grace found in Jesus Christ.
On Eagles Wings Ministries provides services to women and girls who are trapped in commercial sexual exploitation. On our website, you can find a list of our projects and events. We are in need of volunteers to help with outreach. To learn more about our outreach and call center, please visit www.rahabshope.com

Reasons for the Growing Epidemic

Technology & The Internet.

An increase reliance on the Internet and communication devices has changed the nature and scope of traditional pimping and pandering. As a result, human trafficking knows no borders and geography is no longer a barrier. It takes commercial sexual exploitation of children off the streets & onto the Internet, thereby impairing visibility & increasing mobility. As a result, the sophistication of the CSEC marketplace is enhanced.

  • In 2005, the US Census Bureau estimated that 24.5 million children across the Nation, between ages of 10 and 17, use the Internet.
  • 1 in 7 (or about 3 million children) receive an online sexual solicitation or approach.

Technology and the Internet fuel the widespread movement of victims & offenders in response to market demand. It increases the transitory nature of CSEC cases, impeding law enforcement’s ability to:

  • Locate victims and traffickers;
  • Identify essential witnesses and evidence;
  • Share important information and intelligence.

Profitability

CSEC offers traffickers big money and little risk. The Internet grants greater access to children and unattainable profits. Even small time traffickers make big time money. As a result, drug dealers, gangs, and organized crime are lured from traditional pursuits into the big business of CSEC. Now, drug dealers are dealing children instead of dope. Sadly, today there is no better return on money than selling a child for sex.

Language

The misuse of language in how we describe CSEC disguises profit for traffickers and harm to victims. Terms like “prostitute” or “pimp” inaccurately portray the multi-million dollar industry of child abuse. Only trafficker’s profit from these labels. Additionally, popular culture perpetuates false stereotypes and causes harm.

They’re Organized, We’re Not

Agencies and organizations often work in silos, whereas traffickers operate in a vastly interrelated network. As a result, traffickers often elude law enforcement, and present themselves to their victims as the only ones who care about them. Thus, victims are left with little trust in child serving professionals due to this inadvertent negligence that comes from the lack of a coordinated system response.

Victimology of CSEC

CSEC are hard to manage because they do not identify themselves as victims of sexual exploitation. Various factors play into that belief. CSEC victims don’t know what love looks like and are looking for love in all the wrong places.

Psychological manipulation and domination creates trauma bonds from the victim to their exploiter, and further impairs recovery and prosecution efforts. Many are unwilling to cooperate with law enforcement, and will not testify against their pimp. Understanding CSEC victimology is the key to effectively managing CSEC victims and cases. //

Source: H.E.A.T. Watch (Stop human exploitation and human trafficking)


Ex Porn Star Tells the Hardcore Truth About Porn


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 * Sex and love addiction untreated can end in betrayal, divorce, STDs and death from aids or suicide.

Two Ex Porn Stars Uncover the Truth About Porn


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Four Ex-Porn Stars Speak Out About Truths And Violence of Porn


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On the Anniversary of the Emancipation Proclamation, President Obama Refocused Efforts on Modern Day Slavery

Posted April 4 2012 |

 Last month President Obama met with his cabinet and senior advisors to lay out plans to put an end to modern day slavery.

//President Obama said, “I am confident that we will one day end the scourge of modern slavery, because I believe in those committed to this issue: young people, people of faith and station, Americans who refuse to accept this injustice and will not rest until it is vanquished.”

We couldn’t agree more.//

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The Protected Innocence Challenge:

Mobilizing State Action for National Change.

Posted February 2 2011 |


During the past year, Shared Hope International has dedicated most of its resources to a daring initiative that promises to change the legal landscape addressing sex trafficking of American children, called the Protected Innocence Initiative.

On December 1, 2011, Shared Hope International released this groundbreaking research in the first-ever Protected Innocence Challenge.  Shared Hope also hosted a series of events last week including the Pathbreaker Award Reception to award Attorneys General for their leadership on the issue, a press conference at which the report was officially released to the public, and an executive briefing to discuss the findings of the report. Read More ›

Two States Take the Protected Innocence Challenge Head On
Posted February 15 2012
Last year, Shared Hope issued failing grades to over half the states for their legal provisions to protect America’s innocent against domestic minor sex trafficking. We challenged each state to raise their grade. They heard us! Taking this challenge head on, more than 30 states have introduced a total of 90 bills (and counting!) that will help combat human trafficking in their states.
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Healing hand of God – Jeremy Camp

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